Stuck in your head during intimacy?Let's get you back into your body.
A free 10–15 minute call to talk about where you're at, and whether somatic sexology could help you feel safe, present, and at ease in your own skin again.
Aimee Zheng | Certified Somatic Sexologist & Sex Educator | Embodied Counselling
Explore your goals around relationships, intimacy and pleasure.
Somatic sexology helps you understand what your body is communicating, explore intimacy without pressure, and build greater self-trust, connection and pleasure.
No pressure. No need to have everything figured out. Just a private conversation to see what's right for you.
What actually happens on the call.
Your free exploration call includes:
A private conversation
about your goals around
relationships and intimacy
A simple explanation of what somatic sexology is
An opportunity to ask questions
Space to share what you're curious about or hoping to understand
A clearer sense of whether
somatic sexology feels like
the right fit for you
Even if you never book a session, you'll leave the call understanding your options, and knowing you're not the only one dealing with this.
Book your free callWhat it's like to work with Aimee.
No more staying stuck in your head during intimacy. Let's help you feel real connection.
Hi, my name is Aimee Zheng.
Empowering people to speak openly about sex, intimacy and pleasure without shame is at the heart of my work.
Many of us were never given the tools, language or permission to safely explore these parts of ourselves. I've spent the time since 2020 building spaces where people can reconnect with their sexuality, with confidence, curiosity and self-trust.
Before this, I spent years as an architect, designing social housing across Australia and Singapore, and travelling globally with the Young G20.
It's part of what makes my approach so grounded, inclusive and genuinely non-judgmental.
Why Aimee
Who this is for, and who it isn't.
A good fit if
- You're curious about your body and pleasure, with or without a specific problem
- You're dealing with mismatched libido, performance anxiety, or feeling disconnected during intimacy
- You want practical, embodied tools, not just another conversation about it
- You want a judgment-free space, whatever your gender, orientation or relationship structure
- You're comfortable starting with a phone call, wherever you're based
Not right if
- You're looking for a physical or sexual service. Sessions are educational and coaching-based — there is no physical or sexual contact involved, ever
- You're in crisis or need urgent medical or mental health care right now
- You want a guaranteed outcome or an overnight fix
- You have a medical symptom that needs a GP's attention first
If you need help right nowCall Lifeline on 13 11 14 (24/7). For support after sexual assault or family violence, call 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732. This page and Aimee's sessions are educational and coaching-based — they are not a substitute for emergency, medical or psychological care.
Why we talk first.
It isn't a sales call with a nicer name. Here's what you can hold Aimee to.
- 1
Exactly as long as we say.
Fifteen to thirty minutes, not longer. - 2
You'll hear about working together once.
Only if it's a genuine fit, never as a pitch. - 3
Plain honesty if it's not a fit.
Aimee will say so, and help point you elsewhere. - 4
Nothing is recorded.
What you share stays confidential.
Four steps, and you can stop after any of them.
Book your free call
Pick a time that works. 15 to 30 minutes, by phone.
The exploration call
We talk through what's going on, and what you want out of this.
Your first session
If it's a fit, we book you in. You'll get a wellbeing questionnaire and ethics agreement beforehand.
Ongoing work
At your pace, built around what you actually need. Nothing is assumed upfront.
Frequently asked questions
Still have a question?
Can't find the answer you're after? Send Aimee an email and she'll get back to you personally.
Send EmailNo. Sessions are educational and coaching-based. Aimee works through conversation, breathwork and body-awareness practices. There is no physical or sexual contact at any point, with Aimee or between you and anyone else in session.
Not exactly. Somatic sexology works directly with the nervous system and the body, alongside the kind of conversation you'd get in talk therapy. If what you actually need is clinical mental health treatment, Aimee will tell you honestly and help you find the right person.
Either. Plenty of clients start solo. Some come as a couple. Whatever's true for you is the right way to start.
You'll book your first session. Beforehand, you'll get a short wellbeing questionnaire and a professional ethics agreement to look over and sign, and payment is required ahead of the session.
You don't need a specific problem to start. Curiosity is enough.
A free 15 to 30 minute call, by phone. No pressure, no judgment, no obligation.
Book your free exploration call3 quick questions, about 30 seconds.